2024 Christian Bremer Singles (Iowa, United States)

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Older Gwm living alone in Indianola, Ia and I can host. Looking for friends,hang out bud, ltr or poss hookup.

Looking for a woman

Im me

I'm a loving, caring and shy

**** it its time to have fun

Im a good dad & thats all i wanna be

Looking for my soulmate.

About ME I am single, available with no children. I'm looking to be with a laid-back naturally man, and as well as have a life long fun kinky sexual relationship together. . But I see myself as a loyal, nurturing and encouraging person. I am a better listener than I am of a conversation leader. I believe in men and women traditional roles, growing up, I felt so much pressure to do everything a man can do, and to be everything a man can be. But it's just what society pushes women to do these days. It's not what I want. I want to be second in command, to be a man's support system, his assistant, but not be the one leading him. I want my priorities to be the needs of my husband and my children. For me, I think I am only successful in life if I had a happy husband and emotionally, mentally and physically healthy children. Career achievements and goals means nothing to me. It's something I've been fed that I should be ambitious and aim for those things, but it never made me happy or fulfilled, and I feel empty without a man to care for. I am also a woman who is completely comfortable with my sexuality and fully embrace the gift that is given to me, being a woman and what we can experience sexually, and I revel in it. I work best with a man who understands a woman's body and the heights he could bring her, and also a man who doesn't hold any derogatory double standards towards women enjoying sex. I love movies, live music, reading romance novels, inline skating, snorkeling, diving, traveling, wining and dining, and live for calculated thrills and adventures. and I would be able to trust him to take care of my physical, mental and emotional well-being. He should believe that love and D/S can co-exist together and infact IS the ingredient that makes the relationship most fulfilling. He needs to be articulate and be good in communication. He would make me crave for his physical attentions on me, be lusty and have a mighty sex drive that could match mine, love giving sexual attentions to his sub. I have an insatiable ability to multiple *** for long hours, and I need a man who thinks that's heaven to be with and not get bored with it. We should be able to have deep and meaningful conversations together, joke and laugh together and be able to do normal vanilla things together too. Be my best friend. He would be gentlemanly, stable, mature, patient, calm and good tempered, with a great sense of humour during play and likes cats. He should be sane and have a realistic understanding of how a D/S relationship can mesh with real life successfully. He should have good social and communication skills, and be cool, calm and chill when dealing with conflicts. And no married men please. I'm seeking an exclusive committed long term relationship with the intention of marriage and starting a family together. Where we could be positive, loving, encouraging and supportive towards each other and sexually rock each other world, sharing complimentary kinky interests and cravings. I would worship you, love you, and revolve my schedule as much as possible around you and your convenience if necessary to make us work. I believe when there is deep love and trust, alot of things can be worked out. Marriage should just be two people having fun together, enjoying each other, be playful with each other and not so dreary with all the fixations on protocols, that's my opinion. List of things I love Blind folds Bondage Vibrators Dildos Spanking Finger ****ing Sex Forced orgasms "Funishment dynamic" Lists of things I enjoy when comfort level is there Collar and Leash Verbal Abuse Verbal degradation Private humiliation like being ordered to display myself in humiliation positions Role playing non-consensual sexual scenes Favourite Spanking Tool Leather Belt Leather Multi-strands leather Whip Most disliked Spanking Equipment (Can't take any pain with these) Paddle Cane..penetration or anal play ******* (Giving or Receiving) Fisting Public humiliation or public display of any kind Third party involvement in our plays Nude pictures or any pictures Swallowing Orgasm Denials Any religious involvement As my experience is still low, anything that I discover hurts me emotionally or harms me physically is going to be a limit I saw this on someone else's profile and I think they are good guides to kink play!