is it normal for a person to loose intrest in your conpanion and to be lonley even if you love them i feel bad that the woman i feel in love with and been with for over 20 years i still love her but i feel like im no longer in love with her any comments how to poceed this starting to feel lonley this shouldnt be right help

Its natural when we lead a monotonus life if we take a break frm the family 4 a while in between may help i guess

No i dont think its normal to loose interests in ones partner.To loose interests its a sign that theres something wrong in the relationship. . .Good to know that you still love her :) Hows your communication level in your marriage?

@oklahoma65: welcome to the club sir ! i call it falling out of love .
if you're able to cure your condition successfully then do let me know too

Maybe a romantic getaway will re-ignite the old flame or some counseling.Gotta talk to her. Don't let it eat you up inside.Get it out and hopefully you can resolve this .20 yrs. is a long time. Best of luck 2 ya.

Bring back the romance, go on dates. Try to remember what it was you feel in love with 20 years ago. Be spontaneous bring her home a beautiful flower bouquet and a sentimental loving card cook her a romantic candle lite dinner. Take her to a couples spa. Talk to her dont lose the love u have

Remember it always takes two to keep that spark alive and as always truely forgive each other so you both dnt hold thing against each other that will build walls that can become unbreakable which causes you to feel your not inlove anymore become adventerious with each other as well.above all ask god for guidence on this and to be apart of it as well he was there when you took your vows and hes there now.

I would seek counseling. And everyone has great ideas to rekindle your romance. Heres another one rekindle your first date and the day you proposed to her and the thingd that made you fall in love with her. Sometimes a blast from the past will get you to remember. And i say romance has died men need it ss much as women do.

I just gotta say that joining a dating site ain't gonna do it!

@JLaDawn: Thank God someone else feels the same way I do!