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I?m tired of talking to my girlfriend I just want to go to bed (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
I?m tired of talking to my girlfriend I just want to go to bed
I (37)f just moved in with my girlfriend (29)f. I haven't lived with a partner before and so I know there's a learning curve but I am struggling with how slow she does everything. Everytime I want to go somewhere or walk to a different room she has to tell me a story or wants to cuddle or kiss 1000 times. I like doing those things but my brain is different than hers and it throws me off when I constantly have to change what I want to do to accommodate her stories (which are long ) Or I want to go to bed and she wants to cuddle any then when I finally get up to go to bed (we sleep separately) she prolongs it even more by a hug or a kiss. I just want to go to bed I realize I sound like a terrible girlfriend. It just seems like I'm the one always compromising by slowing down or putting off everything I want to do so she is happy. I would suck it up but I can feel resentment coming, I want to bring this up to her but how do I say heyyy your cuddles are too much cause I just want to go to bed ...
Tl:dr my girlfriend keeps talking to me or kissing me whenever I want to leave the house or go to bed and it is annoying me.
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I (37)f just moved in with my girlfriend (29)f. I haven't lived with a partner before and so I know there's a learning curve but I am struggling with how slow she does everything. Everytime I want to go somewhere or walk to a different room she has to tell me a story or wants to cuddle or kiss 1000 times. I like doing those things but my brain is different than hers and it throws me off when I constantly have to change what I want to do to accommodate her stories (which are long ) Or I want to go to bed and she wants to cuddle any then when I finally get up to go to bed (we sleep separately) she prolongs it even more by a hug or a kiss. I just want to go to bed I realize I sound like a terrible girlfriend. It just seems like I'm the one always compromising by slowing down or putting off everything I want to do so she is happy. I would suck it up but I can feel resentment coming, I want to bring this up to her but how do I say heyyy your cuddles are too much cause I just want to go to bed ...
Tl:dr my girlfriend keeps talking to me or kissing me whenever I want to leave the house or go to bed and it is annoying me.
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