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My husband is having an affair. (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (30 / M-F / Massachusetts)
7-Nov-24 12:30 am
My husband is having an affair.

I found out my husband (31M) has been cheating on me (36F) with a (21/22F) for almost a year now.
Back story: our entire relationship, i have been friends with a male that my husband has continuously asked me to stop talking to. I felt the conversations were harmless so I would ask him why, and ultimately never stopped. The conversations were platonic and happened very far and few..just to catch up type of conversation. He addressed again Dec of last year and I told him then, if it really bothered him, i would stop.
My husband always had access to all of my things..phone..iPad..laptop etc..because i felt like i wasn?t hiding anything. However, he would never give me his passcode or allow me to go through his phone. Fast forward 4 months later..he sporadically starts acting different..hanging out until 5/6 in the morning, and sometimes not coming home at all. I would question him about it and he would tell me he was out with friends.He stopped sleeping in the bed..stopped doing things with me. Saying hurtful things to me. Just being a total different person. He then started saying, we?re growing apart, we?re not happy. I asked him he is treating me like he doesn?t care and doesn?t want to be married to me, and that i think another woman is involved. He kept making me seem as if i was making these things up in my head.
So one weekend he goes out of town, and what do i see, pictures of him and another girl in the club together. I send him the pictures and he?s still denying he?s with her and that?s he?s not cheating. This girl is well aware that he is married and works with him in hiding their relationship. I kicked him out of the house and he now lives with her (but denying he does) and blames his actions on me, saying i should have stopped talking to my male friend.
He is now forcing me to file for divorce, while still not denying to me, family and friends that he dealing with this lil girl.
TL:DR My husband is cheating


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 DearJohn (6)      (65 / M-F / Arkansas)
7-Nov-24 8:28 am
Talking with another guy, made your man jealous

 

 

 
 
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