A 24w pregnant me (21F) found out husband (22M) secretly had a man over for a jobuddy experience.

I married this man in January of 2022. I?ve known him for about 7 years. We were high school sweethearts. I had issues with staying loyal at first because I was a stupid teenager at the time and was trying to figure out what I wanted in a relationship. I ended up with him, we got married, and I really love him. He got me saved and is a Baptist Christian (won?t drink, doesn?t like gay people, that kind). I don?t have those exact same values but whatever...
We bought a house and closed on it June 11th. Moved in the 14th. Everything was going great. Absolutely wonderful. I did most of the cooking, we did fun things together, etc. I even sold my expensive 30AE Miata for a family vehicle to make bills easier. On to more relevant info to the situation..
We both work weekends but I work a graveyard day shift 3/12?s, and make pretty good money ($25/hr), and he is a pizza driver trying to get a software development job. I work 6AM to 6:30PM, and he works 5:30PM to about 1AM depending on if he closes or not. Anyways, I came home to the couch being made up nicer than usual. He was acting different than usual on the phone (we talk when he?s driving sometimes). I had a weird gut feeling. It was a plain as day feeling. I went on his computer and looked into browser history for the first time. I saw discord being accessed online and that was weird to me because he has the application for his computer, so I go there. There?s a saved password and I?m in. Completely different account. Right away there?s a chat with porn being sent from the other person and both of them setting up a date to meet. They met at a 7-11, then the other person ?asked to ?come up? There was another message about an hour later from husband saying ?fun time. I?ll let you know when to stop by again. But that was my first time doin that so idk how I feel about it?
I cried. A lot. I definitely knew this was a man, and that they came over to do something together. Something gay. Even though he said he hated gays. And he?s also MARRIED.
I cried on the phone, screaming. He stopped by on a delivery and tried to do damage control by implying it wasn?t at this house we bought together, saying he was straight and it was just a jobuddy experience (when straight or gay men jerk off next to each other watching pornography and nothing else..) idk what to believe. He told me at first he didn?t do anything and he was ?too nervous?.
I later got out of him that he did in fact get naked with this guy and watched porn together and only 5 minutes later did he get ?uncomfortable? and stop. He found the buddy on a ?deleted? Dating.mobi account I haven?t been able to find. I found a lot more on his computer, a gayfriendfinder account made June 23rd, clearly trying to find someone. I feel alone and he keeps trying to explain to me that it?s just a porn addiction and it led him to be more ?curious?. I?ve been broken since. He keeps telling me he?s not gay but I don?t know what to think.
I?m 24 weeks pregnant and this was last Friday he did this. I feel lost. my brain can?t compute this due to me being in shock. I?m just in shock.
TLDR: Husband invited someone over when I wasn?t home to ?jobuddy? with him he claims. He never ever told me he was gay. I am 24wks pregnant with his child.


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