I cant stop thinking about this girl i met on here. She was perfect cuz she was understandable about my sexuality. It didnt work cuz she lied to me and i got upset and dumped\cheated on her. I keep saying its a mistake but was it? Do i even want a girl. I thought i was gay. Then i meet a girl in person. The first i ever was physically attracted to and mentally. But she broke my heart when she ****ed one of my best friends. Cuz she didnt want to have sex with me cuz i was a virgin. So do i choose men cuz women dont want a bi or a man whose been with another man? Or am i just more attracted to guys? I never had any experience with a chick, never found the right one. I stumbled upon men first. No girl wants to be patient and considerate enough. Makes sense cuz im not very manly. It just sux. Cuz im not a good gay since i dont act the part lol Damn im confused Can anybody help? Tips ideas suggestions

Just be yourself it will come together for you you do what your heart says and if your bi then so be it but i do know there are women out there that dont mind being with a bi guy but you really have to follow your heart what does it say? and i didnt think there were parts to play being gay? you either are or are not but you have to ask yourself which do you prefer or since you have been with guys are you just woman curious i hope some of this makes some kind of sense hun

@Estarley77: Thanx That did help a lot Im still not sure. Cuz i do like girls but idk if i can have sex Only cuz i havent tried it. Ive been waiting for the right girl. But then i met a guy first and the rest was history. Ive been a customed to that. Im more like a woman so it would be hard to be with one. But at the same time im not this stereotype gay lol I always wished to find a girl but i think being with a guy first messed my chances up.

ive been with bi guys before and enjoyed being with them cause they are more understanding when it comes to emotions and sensitive topics so dont worry about it

your young you still have plenty of time to find that right girl or guy

Its not really somethin you choose or you can force. if you are meant to be with woman then you will find tha right one who will understand and love you. if not you'll find a man who does. but i dont think love is about sexuality you fall in love with who makes you happy not what body parts they do or do out have

Bi guys are awsome and i think they are alot better than straight guys because they are more sensitive and they are more open to ideas in the bedroom and i dont mind being a mans first it wouldnt be the first time but after that some of them never talked to me again and i always feel used i never thought i would feel that way with a virgin anyway so yeah bi men are cool so hit me up if you want to talk

Does it make a guy gay if he likes things in his butt

Say no to Homosexual. It clashes with the "natural"
order in which God created
human beings
It brings destruction of the family
and the institutions of marriage and by the way god created Adam nd Eve not Adam nd Eddy orAmanda nd Eve...I mean no offiensive but its som thng pshycho and needs treatment this what my comnsense suggest.

Yeh preach it brother preach it...