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About life (by Sheryln4luv)

 Sheryln4luv (0)   (36 / F-M / Illinois)
11-Mar-22 5:52 am
Sometimes life can be frustrating when looking for something and not getting the results but it's all based on being integrity honest straight forward and move on with the right people that can add value to your life. I find it difficult to find true love nowadays but I believe and trust that true love still exists

 

 

 
 
 Quietlightening (1)     (38 / F-M / England)
5-May-25 9:14 pm
Sometimes, life can feel incredibly frustrating—especially when you're searching for something meaningful and not finding the results you hoped for. Whether it's in personal relationships, career goals, or life in general, the feeling of trying hard without seeing progress can weigh heavily on the heart. It’s easy to get discouraged, to question your path, or to wonder whether what you're looking for even exists. However, I’ve come to learn that everything worthwhile in life is built on a foundation of integrity, honesty, and being straightforward. These values don’t just shape our own journey—they also help attract the kind of people who can truly add value to our lives.

Being honest and authentic with ourselves and others may not always lead to instant gratification, but it does lead to deeper, more meaningful connections in the long run. Sometimes, we need to let go of the wrong people or paths that don’t serve us in order to make room for the right ones. Surrounding ourselves with positive, trustworthy, and growth-minded individuals can make all the difference. They help elevate us, keep us grounded, and inspire us to stay true to who we are.

One of the most challenging areas where this principle applies is in love. I find it increasingly difficult to find true love in today's world. The fast pace of modern life, the distractions of technology, and a shift in values have made genuine connection seem rare. But even in the midst of this uncertainty, I choose to believe. I trust that true love still exists—love that is selfless, honest, supportive, and enduring. I believe it’s out there for those who remain open, patient, and committed to staying true to their values.

So despite the frustration and setbacks, I will continue to walk my path with integrity. I will remain honest and keep surrounding myself with people who bring light and value to my life. Because in the end, I know that staying true to myself is the only way to find what’s truly meant for me

 

 

 
 
 Quietlightening (1)     (38 / F-M / England)
8-May-25 6:29 am
Love isn’t always fireworks and dramatic moments. Sometimes, it’s the quiet way someone reaches for your hand in the middle of their story, or how their eyes find yours across a room filled with noise. Real love is soft and steady, yet powerful enough to change everything.

In the beginning, love often feels like a storm — passionate, wild, overwhelming. You stay up all night talking, your heart races with every text, and the world seems brighter when they're near. But the magic of true love is not just in the sparks. It’s in what comes after — the slow, beautiful building of something deeper.

Real relationships aren’t about perfection. They’re about acceptance. When someone sees your flaws, your fears, your dreams, and chooses you anyway — that's love. It's the comfort of knowing you can be completely yourself, without fear of being too much or not enough.

Love is in the small gestures: bringing you coffee just the way you like it, sending you songs that remind them of you, remembering that your favorite season is autumn because you once said you love the sound of falling leaves. It’s in the shared silence that feels safe, not awkward. It’s in the way your name sounds different coming from their lips — like a promise.

It’s also in the hard moments. When misunderstandings happen, when life gets heavy — and still, you both choose each other. Love is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of a deep commitment to grow together, not apart.

The most beautiful kind of love is the one that teaches you about yourself, that inspires you to be better, not because they demand it, but because their love makes you want to rise.

If you’ve found someone who makes you feel seen, heard, and cherished — hold onto that. Nurture it. Protect it. Because in a world that moves too fast and forgets too easily, love — real, deep, heart-achingly beautiful love — is the one thing worth slowing down for.

And if you haven’t found it yet, don’t worry. Love often finds us in the quiet moments we least expect — like a whisper that becomes a song in your soul.

 

 

 
 
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