Her life is really bad now I wanna try to help her in any way but she keeps denying my help, idk if our relationship is separated or not she made a promise that she broke 2 times and she thinks im gonna break her up for that reason, havent been able to contact her because her phone is disconnected and the only way we talk to each other is through Facebook so idk what to do now :/

@heartlezzz: To be honest, it sounds like that's not the right kind of relationship you want to be in. I doubt you could save her, and though I respect your wanting to, in the end, she probably needs to find her own way out of whatever issues she's having.

But how do you know if her life is really bad now since you haven't contacted her yet?

There are people who like to deal their problems with theirselves , I'm like that . I don't like anyone gets involve for whatever problem(s) I have especially if it involves money , property or life . I would ask for an opinion using 3rd person though at times ..

Perhaps , if she can sorted our all her problems then she'll be able to contact you again . Give her time to settle everything & after everything's back to normal including FB then talk to her about your relationship status :)

Where very deeply in love and that's what's only keeping us from being apart, I really do truely love her and I know she feels the same way towards me, she's cried over the phone and she shows that she truely loves me in many different ways so I really don't know what to do now and just wait

She tells me what's been going on with her life on Facebook, she's been going through a lot of stress lately now im being patient

hmm just wait for her to contact u again :)

I've been waiting for days, I've cried almost every night, I even cried when I drove home from work

@heartlezz: awts! dont need to cry dear. i think u must give her enough space.

and yea rainbow was right maybe she just want to solve her problems on her own (like most of girls do)..

Where waiting till shes back on track, dont know how long that's gonna take :/