How hard is it 2 find a sweet, young, beautiful woman?! it's like the fact that i'm honest, hard working, don't cheat, don't hit women, an have alot of love 2 give make's me destined 2 spind my life alone! All i want is someone who has kid's or wants kid's (i'd love nothing more then 2 be a father) an is honest, won't use me 4 money, an will let me be good 2 her. Is that so hard 2 ask 4 out of someone? Wat am i doin so wrong?

yes it is very very hard to find gals u lyk.its hard lyk walkng in sand desert with no water nor direction.lol.

@Rocko6289: You mentioned 4 perfectly reasonable characteristics you'd like to find in a woman (in addition to her being young, sweet, and beautiful). The fact is that no one is that cut and dry. A person is so much more than a handful of traits, and everyone is changing, growing, and maturing, for the better or the worse. You sound like you're discouraged, and I can sympathize with that, but blaming the fact that you can't find her on your good qualities is insulting because you're implying women only want dirt bags, which isn't true. You're still young and you have plenty of time to find her, so just relax and let things happen naturally. c:

@Rocko6289: Honestly, a picture of your private area doesn't really attract the kind of gal you mentioned above, whether you have underwear on or not, it's still suggestive. I am not trying to be rude by that either so please do not take offense.

I can see he feels.that way. I have seen many great women cling to said.dirtbag for reasons that escape me. but you arw quite correct,people are in conatant.change and our peraonal qualities cannot overcome.circumstances in others lives.

@ThatNerdyChick: I also agree to what you said.

@kait exactly.he won't go much further with his pic

I'm in no way trying 2 imply that women only want dirtbags. i kno there r good women out there. . . bein beautiful is not only an outward appearance. Most beauty comes from within. an abt my pict. . . i am a man. . . so of course sex is among the things on my mind which i do not feel is wrong or something 2 be ashamed of. i love sex but i also want a woman who wants me not only in bed but in other way's as well! i understand that ppl r eternally changing an growing each in their maturity an personality almost daily. but the thing's i want r wat i hear most women complain that they can't find from a man wanting. i may be young but i am more then ready 2 settle down an have a family. i have lived my single crazy life an have experienced many thing's. i have traveled 2 other countries on simply pleasure of going. an also as work (i've been 2 war twice). but the fact that i have never an will never cheat, call a woman out of her name, or hit a woman, an am a hard worker, an want kid's an true love i feel isn't something that women should just over look. i thought i had found her once an did my best each an everyday 2 tell her she was beautiful an that she ment everything 2 me. i supported her an her 2 children an was there 4 them when their father's wouldn't be. but 2 my suprise when i came home from Taji, Iraq the second time i found out she had been having another man staying in my house, spinding my money, driving my car, an sleeping in my bed. An i feel as if i did not deserve any of that after being good 2 her an her kid's.

@Rocko6289: I'm so sorry that happened to you. :c
That's really awful.

@Rocko6289: No you totally did not deserve that, and that makes her a soulless dirtbag for doing that to you when you were providing for her and her children.

Also, about the pic.... it is your right to have whatever photo you choose. However, I know that personally when I go to potential match's profiles I really don't prefer to have their junk put in my face. It's a complete turn off. Do I think about sex? OF COURSE! It's natural. I was just simply suggesting putting up a photo of your face and saving the one up there for when you find a match, someone that you like a lot.