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My husband's [28m] car got destroyed and now he's taking his frustrations out on me [24f] (by Sparky)
(30 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My husband's [28m] car got destroyed and now he's taking his frustrations out on me [24f]
We've been dating for 4 years, married for 11 months.
Basically, a truck driver hit my husband's car and entirely destroyed it. It was a hit-and-run, so no one knows who the driver of the truck was which is ironic because almost all of our neighbours saw it happening but nobody bothered to write down the license plate number. The accident happened at around 7 am. Our whole neighbourhood started talking about it and three hours later one of them finally decided to let us know what happened. Needless to say, it was a ****ty way to start the day.
My husband loves his cars, especially this one. We're currently trying to figure things out with our insurance, but it's not looking good. My husband is super frustrated and angry, understandably so. Unfortunately, he's taking all of this frustration and anger out on me. He's yelling at me nonstop and forcefully pushes me out of the way when I'm standing in his way. I tried to comfort him and gently touched his arm but he slapped my hand away.
I've never seen him like that and honestly, it's scaring me. I'm one of those people that immediately get emotional when someone raises their voice at them. Is there anything that I can do? How can I calm him down?
TL;DR: My husband's car got destroyed in a hit-and-run and now he's taking his frustrations out on me.
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We've been dating for 4 years, married for 11 months.
Basically, a truck driver hit my husband's car and entirely destroyed it. It was a hit-and-run, so no one knows who the driver of the truck was which is ironic because almost all of our neighbours saw it happening but nobody bothered to write down the license plate number. The accident happened at around 7 am. Our whole neighbourhood started talking about it and three hours later one of them finally decided to let us know what happened. Needless to say, it was a ****ty way to start the day.
My husband loves his cars, especially this one. We're currently trying to figure things out with our insurance, but it's not looking good. My husband is super frustrated and angry, understandably so. Unfortunately, he's taking all of this frustration and anger out on me. He's yelling at me nonstop and forcefully pushes me out of the way when I'm standing in his way. I tried to comfort him and gently touched his arm but he slapped my hand away.
I've never seen him like that and honestly, it's scaring me. I'm one of those people that immediately get emotional when someone raises their voice at them. Is there anything that I can do? How can I calm him down?
TL;DR: My husband's car got destroyed in a hit-and-run and now he's taking his frustrations out on me.
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