So i know getting involved with someone with an ex wife/baby momma isnt the best idea. my gut is screaming two things. 1 run... its gonna be the same story as last time
and 2 stay... he could be different.
im torn... i let myself slip a lil. i wasnt planning on getting too involved with anyone... theres alot goin on in my life right now. but it just happened... and now idk anymore. i like him. i do. but is this worth possibly getting my heart broken again?

@alwayswaiting91: if u start ur life with some right,sincer person than ur heart wil nevr broken.but if u r after a some one charming handsome or rich person that can increase the chances of heart broken again.

@alwayswaiting91: if u start ur life with some right,sincer person than ur heart wil nevr be broken.but if u r after a some one charming handsome or rich person that can be increase the chances of ur heart broken again.

@alwayswaiting91: if u start ur life with some right,sincer person than ur heart wil nevr be broken.but if u r after a some one charming handsome or rich person that can be increase the chances of ur heart broken again.

Im not after someone who's hot or rich. i want someone who gets me... someone who is my other half.

I would give it a chance...You can prevent heart break but then you'll be alone forever. If you want love, you have to risk it. If his having a kid doesnt bother you then the baby momma drama should only be seen as a bump in the road. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship anymore, but you really need to pick your battles. And this one, unless he still has feelings for her in which he shouldnt have involved you at all, should be one of those battles you are willing to fight. Good luck.

Thank you... and yeah thats the way i see it. ive never turned down a guy because he had a kid. ive never broken up with a guy for that reason either. its always been them. they'll say somethig along the lines of "she wont ever let me be happy. im just gonna give up... ill never find true love" and theen i get my heart broken because i put so much into it. wich is why im a lil confused now. im kinda going with the flow... seeing what happens first. trying to be carefull first.