Summer 2010 I fell in love with someone, the coolest part was that SHE was the one that asked ME out. This was the first relationship I've ever been in. We went out for about six months. And I trusted her more than my own family. She was the one, no doubt about it. One day she went to the lake with a bunch of guy friends and got s***faced on a boat, trying to avoid talking to me the whole day. So I brushed it off, telling myself "whatever, if she wants to party with friends, I wont interupt her". She wound up spending the night there and wen I called her the next morning to see how the hangover was treating her, the was a guys voice in the background that I didn't recognize. I've heard her family through the phone before several times, and I know them weither they're sick, lost they're voice, or even singing in the shower in the background. This guy was not familiar. So I asked her who it was and she told me her friend came over from the lake that morning. So like any guy in that sitution, I instantly jump to the conclusion that shes cheating on me. And of course an arguement begins that ends in us breaking up. I realize I was wrong to suspect her, and I've apologized countless times for it. We are still friends, but since we have school together and we see each other all the time on the bus and at campus, I'm falling in love with her all over again. I've asked her out a couple of times since January. but each time I do she just ignores me. She doesn't tell me no, she just doesnt answer me at all. What can I do to show her I'm sorry and that she can trust me again? I miss her...

Well unfortunantly she probably was cheating. I hate to say it. As far as u appoligizing to her, i know u like her and all but u didnt do anything wrong, if she was telling the truth she would of done anything/everything to prove that to u instead of letting the relationship end. Her knowing u r still wanting her shows u r putty in her hands. Be hard to get, be her friend but dont act like u want her anymore, its hard, but trust me honey....u can only do so much, relationships take 2 ppl...good luck