I was with the same man for twenty five years and i left him two months ago because he countinuesly was being unfaithful to me. Well now he wants to be in my life again even though hes with someone else. The problem is i never stopped ?oving him and im trying to move on.

@christine47: would you like to be treated that way? If he's unfaithful, then he doesn't love you but he knew he can take advantage of your love to him, either by providing his needs or preparing the best meals for him. Pause and think, how much you love yourself?

@christine i wouldnt take him back myself. But once a cheater always a cheater. The pain of the hurt you once had with him will always be there. You can not trust him. You will only hurt yourself further by going back. Love is not hurting your other partner it is honoring each other, cherishing each other, having respect for each other, and being faithful to each other. So please have respect for yourself and dont go back to him. Find a nice man that treats you like a queen and you treat him like a king.

My advise is not to take him back. He obviously hasn't changed much. If a dog bites you several times and you throw it out then it comes back and u take it in its most likely gonna bite u again. I don't think he's worth it honestly. Its your choice but I think if you take him back you're gonna get hurt again.