Grrrrrrr I dislike that feature. Anyone else? I understand why it's there but for me from Canada it stinks. Lol.

@Grneyez: It can be annoying but it's the users who set the restrictions on their profiles, such as true pictures, age limits and out of their area. Much like your profile has restrictions too.

@Grneyez: Hi, is a matter of choice. Not all persons are free minded as you are.

Lol, it used to make me mad. Id read someones profile and be like OMGOMGOMG they're so awesome! Id get all excited, then try to message them...you know the rest. But I understand why they do it, but I think maybe when you get on someones profile, and you don't meet their restrictions, you should be told that before you try and message them. Would have been helpful.

@gnrgirl: I agree with you, that's why I'll send a wink 1st then if it goes thru I can write a message.

I agree also, some people just have certain tastes and if one does not meet them, then there isn't much you can do about it, even though they are a bit broad scoped and possibly stereotypical, which sometimes cannot be helped. However... :) Every so often, it does pay to change those restrictions, you never know who you might run into...just might be a surprise and maybe what you were looking for all along.
Peace and Joy,
Bones ;)