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My (19M) girlfriend (20F) of three weeks is talking about marriage and saying I love you. (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My (19M) girlfriend (20F) of three weeks is talking about marriage and saying I love you.
This is my first relationship. She lives kinda far away and I don't have a vehicle due to an accident I had a little while ago. Not only is it difficult to spend time with her, but she has a kid and has hinted at getting married.
Now, it's not just her. I was terrified of pissing her off and making her leave me so when she started saying I love you a week into being together, I said it back. I may have not shot down the idea of getting married either.
I'm in the military so I feel like she's trying to move so fast simply because of the benefits I can give her kid. I hate to think like that but it's been a constant thought in my head.
I know I screwed the pooch by returning the "I love you's" but how do I back out of this with some tact? I don't want to seem like a ******** but I need to look out for number one here.
TL;DR I don't want to date a single mom who has moved way too fast for me. What's a good way to break it off?
Source.
This is my first relationship. She lives kinda far away and I don't have a vehicle due to an accident I had a little while ago. Not only is it difficult to spend time with her, but she has a kid and has hinted at getting married.
Now, it's not just her. I was terrified of pissing her off and making her leave me so when she started saying I love you a week into being together, I said it back. I may have not shot down the idea of getting married either.
I'm in the military so I feel like she's trying to move so fast simply because of the benefits I can give her kid. I hate to think like that but it's been a constant thought in my head.
I know I screwed the pooch by returning the "I love you's" but how do I back out of this with some tact? I don't want to seem like a ******** but I need to look out for number one here.
TL;DR I don't want to date a single mom who has moved way too fast for me. What's a good way to break it off?
Source.
(59 / M-F / Louisiana)
I'm in the military so I feel like she's trying to move so fast simply because of the benefits I can give her kid
Run...fast...directly away from her.
Hell, she'll have a new bf in a week.
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