Do any women believe in giving a decent guy a chance or are all of them just lookin for friends. I see that on a lot of profiles. Im lookin for long term and seems like no ladies are interested.

Hi buddy Ive been having lovely chats with a South African lady 21 years younger. the heart doesnt know age, colour, religion the first place I looked was in the no love box and it made me sad that should be empty help me get some of them out we all need to know that someone cares

How do they know your dating

I think alot of people want to be friends so theres no pressure in becoming anything more. I advertise friends for that reason and if a friendship leads to more then thats great, but if hes not willing to jus be happy with friends and let nature take its course then he has no reason to msg me. I wont put myself under pressure to feel as tho since i say i want long term that means im gonna fall in love instantly or even pretend that i am. Jus not me. I want someone to be my friend and get to know me then fall in love, not someone to try to fall inlove with me cuz i say im available. Fall for me, not my availability

I'm not on here looking for anything, but I'm not ruling out a friendship or maybe more. If I happen to meet a fantastic guy then I'm open to exploring what can come of it. I agree with Brite, sometimes you need to start off as friends and let things flow. Don't force something where it doesn't fit, just let things happen and naturally fall into place.

@Briteeyes1211: you make a good point love but I prefer to put my cards on the table nothing to hide

I am giving a chance to a decent guy...
which is why my profile says looking for friends. :)

I'm looking for friends because I'm not interested in jumping into another pointless relationship. So friends is what I'm only interested in for the foreseeable and if something develops from that one day in the future, great, if not I've still made some new friends.

I see your point ladies.

@Landencalifornia: Im not dating anyone right now.