Would you tell your partner all your secrets ( the bad & the worst ) prior to marriage ( or whatever arrangement ) and let her/ him decides to accept you no matter who you are or wait after the marriage and reveal gradually & hope she/ he would understand and can't turn his/ her back ?

Hmm....i think i would come clean about everything that i thought was important or that could hurt our relationship later down the road, before we got to serious. just to get it out there and not have any suprises once we are serious. i wouldn't tell all my secrets though. some are best left as secrets. :)

Tbh, i would, and if even the worst thing ive ever done was accepted by my special someone, it can help with the moving on from it process

I would tell all....cuz part of getting to know someone and falling in love with them is knowing everything abt them, the good and the bad. If u withhold info till after marriage thats not being completely honest and not exactly fair to them to make a wise decision before hand on their feelings for u.

I feel i have nothing to hide. So i would tell all my secrets to my partner. Brite said it the best. I feel the same way.

I think its best to tell them everything before getting married but I also beleive that so secrets r left secrets so yeah

I would tell them everything, I wouldn't start off that way, but if I know they were the one for me, I would spill it all out... so they would understand me and know me that much more.