First of all, by now, y'all know that I'm not the type to "play the field" just not how I get around.


But after joining some other sites and being a traitor I have found that there are ALOT of freaking guys in Texas!
And several who have found my profiles and made contact and want to meet and such. Which is cool, if I decided I want to meet them...

Anyway what's frustrating is ...I don't know how this works! When I say I'm interested in "dating" these guys automatically think I want to sleep around. When I say "friendship" they automatically think I am not interested in being courted and going on dates. When I say nothing , they can't take the rejection.

I literally have two guys who won't stop calling. A few that just wait a few hours and say the same **** over and over. A couple that I am actually interested in, but they don't know what they want or timing is a problem and a lot that I wouldn't give the time of day...

Is this a problem? I mean, should I just go with whatever feels right? Or exclusively talk to one guy? What's the etiquette for this stuff?

No etiquette. Lol. Pick one that best suits you and go with that. By having more then one you dont allow yourself to fully open to one person becouse you always have those initial meetibg guards up. In ny experience anyway. If that obe dosent work out move on.

I had a lot of success on this one site but it is not formatted for mobile phones. When women that are in their early 20's would drive to my house or I get a ride to Kingwood, Klein, Pine Hurst and they don't want wining and dining they want the D off the bat I can see how other men expect sex with out the formalities of dating. I have no problem taking a woman out to Apple Bees and that Hunger Games sequel seems like it would be good or Annabelle the prequel to the conjuring.

@SweetNothings: I honestly think, be yourself sweeter, and trust your instincts, you have a good head on your shoulders so I'm sure you will be fine. If you need a vent you know where I am ok? :)

You finally admit it!! Ha!

I knew if I didn't say it, you would! Lol

The plan is to narrow it down to three...and go from there, I think. Thanks helpful people!

Youre welcome!

Lmao!

Anyway what's frustrating is ...I don't know how this works! When I say I'm interested in "dating" these guys automatically think I want to sleep around. When I say "friendship" they automatically think I am not interested in being courted and going on dates. When I say nothing , they can't take the rejection.

I literally have two guys who won't stop calling. A few that just wait a few hours and say the same **** over and over. A couple that I am actually interested in, but they don't know what they want or timing is a problem and a lot that I wouldn't give the time of day...Is this a problem? I mean, should I just go with whatever feels right?