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Should I keep looking or give up? (by NightFury)

 NightFury 
15-Jun-14 2:17 am
Hey there, my name is Krissy and I'm looking for someone who'll stick by my side for more than a couple of months. I don't know if I should keep looking or should I give up?...

 

 

 
 
 manondago2 
15-Jun-14 2:29 am
@NightFury: kind of young to be giving up, don't you think?

 

 

 
 
 Lionface (9)    (63 / M-F / Louisiana)
15-Jun-14 2:30 am
@NightFury: Nothing ventured,nothing gained, if you want someone to be with you,your gonna have to keep looking. Your still young an have plenty of time, chose wisely. Good luck.

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
15-Jun-14 4:13 am
Yep give up for a while. They might just find you...

 

 

 
 
 mrb89 
15-Jun-14 4:25 am
Yep give up for a while. They might just find you...
I agree at 20, it's better to focus on yourself. Also at 20, there's still plenty of time.... don't give up on the idea so easily.
But I do really think maybe you should step back and focus on yourself OP, a relationship will come when you least expect it, so stop expecting it

 

 



Last edited by mrb89; 15-Jun-14 4:26 am.
 
 
 NightFury 
15-Jun-14 12:41 pm
I'm just tired of being lonely and by myself. I've got no one to talk to by my family and my dog. Something's wrong something's missing

 

 

 
 
 NightFury 
15-Jun-14 10:52 pm
I give up. I'm tired of being lonely. Obviously I'm not good enough for anyone. Can't stay in a relationship no longer than 2 months. I was hoping that the guy I met in here would be with me for a while but he started ignoring me more and more. He wasn't really in love with me. He fed me his white lies and I believed it all. I thought he would protect me instead of hurt me. I looked up to him. He just turned right around and left me for someone better than me. I'm an unattractive 20 year old who is stupid enough to believe everything someone says to me. Love doesn't exist. I found this out resently. Something's wrong with me. I know there is. I trusted him and he just threw everything I said to him, all the love I gave him and every piece of me away like I was a piece of trash. I'm better off dead than alone

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
16-Jun-14 5:44 am
I give up. I'm tired of being lonely. Obviously I'm not good enough for anyone. Can't stay in a relationship no longer than 2 months. I was hoping that the guy I met in here would be with me for a while but he started ignoring me more and more. He wasn't really in love with me. He fed me his white lies and I believed it all. I thought he would protect me instead of hurt me. I looked up to him. He just turned right around and left me for someone better than me. I'm an unattractive 20 year old who is stupid enough to believe everything someone says to me. Love doesn't exist. I found this out resently. Something's wrong with me. I know there is. I trusted him and he just threw everything I said to him, all the love I gave him and every piece of me away like I was a piece of trash. I'm better off dead than alone

Don't trust anyone until they've earned your trust. It sounds like there are more issues here than just finding love. I hope you figure it out..learn a lesson, and move on.

 

 

 
 
 2Hot4U2Handle 
16-Jun-14 5:10 pm
You will never be happy with anyone, untill you are happy with yourself. Another person does not complete you, he adds more. You are a complete person before and after whomever. Your happiness and self-worth come from you, no one or no where else. Spend more time with your female friends or female relatives and explain how you feel.

 

 

 
 
 2Hot4U2Handle 
16-Jun-14 5:18 pm
Also as far as all these dating sites, its like being in a Walmart. Too much to choose from. So go slow and dont give them what they want. If they value you they will wait and understand. Do look for mates on here, look for friends.

 

 

 
 
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