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Keep trying or giving up? (by rolltide42)

 rolltide42 (4)   (34 / F-M / Alabama)
20-Feb-14 7:13 pm
So... well I usually am the one who never post on this stuff but I do need advice. Me and this guy have been on and off again since High School. He was a virgin when we get back together the last time. He keeps telling me he loves me and wants it to work but never wants sex. EVER.:( so how should I handle this? we have had sex only 2times. And I don't know what to do to try to work on this. any advice?

 

 

 
 
 OmgItsJessi 
20-Feb-14 7:20 pm
I dont think im the person to give advice on this right now but ill try. Have you talked to him about why he doesnt want to have sex?

 

 

 
 
 lonefroggy 
20-Feb-14 8:44 pm
Tough situation..

 

 

 
 
 lonefroggy 
20-Feb-14 9:03 pm
@OmgItsJessi: may i pm you :)?

 

 

 
 
 OmgItsJessi 
20-Feb-14 9:25 pm
@OmgItsJessi: may i pm you :)?
im sorry but you will not meet my contact restrictions

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly 
20-Feb-14 9:26 pm
@OmgItsJessi: may i pm you :)?
im sorry but you will not meet my contact restrictions
Lmao!!!! Post of the year!

 

 

 
 
 Hoping2 
20-Feb-14 9:31 pm
@rolltide42: maybe to him you are more than just a fling. I can't tell you what to do but ask yourself do you love him, follow the heart never will lead you wrong, so I've been told.

 

 

 
 
 xlace75x 
20-Feb-14 9:35 pm
@OmgItsJessi: may i pm you :)?
im sorry but you will not meet my contact restrictions
Lmao!!!! Post of the year!
lmao wow, well atleast he asked first:rolf:

 

 

 
 
 impeccablesossy (33)   (36 / F-MF / Nigeria)
20-Feb-14 9:36 pm
I agree with jesi...get to interact with him...ask him y he doesn't like it...then when he starts opening up...u can take decisions from dere

 

 

 
 
 OmgItsJessi 
20-Feb-14 9:40 pm
Here are my thoughts but i have never had sex with a virgin so they are only guesses. Maybe he thinks he is not any good in bed. Or maybe he looks at it as a really big sin

 

 

 
 
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