What's up with all the "poor me, nobody wants me, am I worthy, I'm so sad" threads lately? JMO(wudnt wanna be considered controversial lol) but I'm attracted to people with at a least a little confidence. Am I alone with that opinion? Or is ol Ram jus being a hard ass?

Nope I agree with you,
yeah being lonely sucks and yeah not getting messages and response sucks,
I think the sexiest thing a person can be is confident and sure of themselves

And don't get me wrong, I understand heartache...had plenty of it in my life. But I wud think, that on a dating website, a person wud wanna be positive...and the "poor me" attitude" is just an advertisement for drama...which is something I can definitely do without. Idk, maybe I'm just getting old lol

I agree with you ram. Im attracted to people secure with themselfs. Its just a sad fact that they are not confident in themselves. I just gets me when some are here less than a two days or even a week and its poor me or why cant i find this.

Its just to easy to sit and moan :) not me

Damn and to think i was coming to this thread to say stop freaking whining...opps lol

I always think its a "look at me" ploy. But i may try and post to make u feel better. Inside i am thinking what y'uns all said. Get over it and get the heck off here cuz u are not ready to date

Yea there are alote of that stuff going on in here

Exactly right Acire....a look at me ploy, I dont even bother to post tho becz I dont wanna feed whatever attention seeking problem they have. And I agree with whomever said that confidence is sexxy...I wldn't give more than a cursory glance at someone whining cuz they cant find love!

That might be why they canot find love