I want to move on but I am not sure if she will kill herself. She threatens to kill herself if i leave. I must do whatever she says but i dont

It sounds like she needs so help if she talks about killin herself

Sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. And u have to do whats best for you. And what ever choices she makes is on her and are not u problem or anything she does your fault. So if u want to go the best thing u can do is go and not look back.

You are going to have to let her go. The ones that talk about it dont usually do it. Its the ones that dont that actually do atempt or suceed. Sometimes in a relationship its a ploy to get you to stay. Does she have any history of depession or pychological melt downs. If not its a ploy. If she has severe depression then you will have to seek professional help to get you out of it. Because it could be disasterious. Try to seek some kind of conseling to help you and her. I dont know hers or your history either just what you state.

@foreversmilesthatlie: you must do whats best for you.unless ur willing to give ur happiness for someone its never gonna work if ur not happy.true colors always show through and so does ur heart.

I used to do stupid stuff after a breakup but than i learned no man was worth it i never told anyone of course i just was so deppressed and i have scars that wont go away i was weak back than and i am getting better i am on meds so dont just assume its a bluff get her help there is a chance she is serious but what i realized is what is the point in harming yourself when they wont even know

@foreversmilesthatlie: many gals out there

She's most likely threatening suicide for your attention. by sticking around your just going to make yourself unhappy. she will be ok and so will you.

Do what ever u can to get her to see a psychiatrest. And is ur not happy and it sounds like shes not happy the relationship is already over so just move on

Hey man if one of u is always trying to hang on to the other it will never work it takes to get her some help and u help u stress is what kills people inside and out