I dnt understand what this means. I have talked to a couple of guys on this site and after a week or less they start telling me they love me... I dont see how a person can love someone they have never met in person or spent time with.... I have never fallen in love over the phone or even thought about loving someone I have never met in person so my question is this; why do guys say that sort of thing before they meet you and why so fast??? What does it really mean???

@gummybear77: A) they're really desperate or B) they're hoping it will get them in your pants quicker. Either way, you should run like hell lol

Oh I already figured that one out... Lol but you know iy just doesnt make sense to me.... Why do huys wnt to throw those three words around like that? I MEAN REALLY!!!! LMAO The nerve of some people is just crazy..... but for what its worth thank you Ram 318....

@gummybear77: Your welcome...ah the JOYS of internet dating :)

Id dare say that they are guys that think like = love, they dont know the difference.

Immature...dont know what love is... Just plain dumb ...all of the above

They start telling me they love me within the first message, or they ask me if i am there girlfriend. And it is not because of that I look like because when i use to not have pictrues posted they would still do it and one of my friends uses this site and they do it to her also. I personally think alot of the ppl on here are just really desperate or not all there.

I think it is a mix of the two. :) like the other people said, part desperation and part lever.... It might be what Hillx said also, not all there all the time. :P But more than anything, it is the idea that many guys think that using that word is a surefire way to get to a girl...however, any woman knows, deep down, what that word means, how it should be properly used, when it is real and when it isn't...the guy who says it without ground..does so foolishly.
Peace and Joy,
Bones. :)

Dont know love is a strong word that should only be told if u mean it most guys think they feel love but their just desperate to here it back from a woman u caint love someone u barely know

Thank you everyone I thought for a moment there was something wrong with me but now I see its not me its them and that makes me feel 100% better.... OMG u just dnt even know...