I did the trial as a new member, gave praise even on my blog for being a step above other sites! Now I'm going to do a week on free member basic & see how it goes. My complaint & poll are connected only by the sites efforts! When it came to their attention to detail... Their choice of matches for me: were people who I had listed as a upgraded member... "Not" to have access to contact me!!! That's why I say free trials to user's is in vain if upgraded members don't get the time of the dating staff any more then the unverified pic or photo- users that give serious seekers a bad taste in their mouths by their scamming ways! So: Why pay for upgraded disappointment on "Both Ends?"

I really liked the upgrade. But Im too lazy to pay for it. But I definately like it better. :)