I just need to vent. I was really interested in a girl. We got to be really close. It takes a lot for me to trust a girl like i trusted her. All of a sudden she just stopped talking to me. She started dating someone else! She led me on the entire time until someone better came along. What is wrong with me?? Why is it that every single effin time i wind up getting hurt?? I just dont understand it. I'm about to give up on dating. This is bull****

@john6290: i'm sorry John...but truly all women are not like that...

Sorry John, that sucks!! Been there and its not fair that anyone would lead u on, if she wasnt interested she should of jus said so instead of getting ur heart involved. But jus hold ur head high and the next woman will be even better. Like Ladawn said, we're not all like that.

Thanks guys. It just really sucks. Like this girl was older (29) so i didnt expect the immaturity. I havent had a single good relationship in my life and it just really sucks. I'm so suck of being hurt like this. I know not every woman is like that but why do the ones that are come to me?! I mean, I'm really a good guy. All i want is the companionship. The cuddling up at night. My intentions are never bad... I just dont get it. I guess nice guys really do finish last...

Dont be to hard on urself. Its her loss. Dont think its u or anything u did. Jus know that u havent found the rite one yet, but u will, jus be patient, and when u find her it will be worth the wait. Dont look for love to hard, let love find u sweetie. Good luck to ya.

Thanks again. Its hard to be patient sometimes. I just cant wait to find the one. I cant wait to find that other half, what's been missing all my life...

So sorry john . Just remember that age is but a number it does not mean someone is mature. Chin up and keep trying this just mean's she was not ment to be with you

Maybe you should be a little more picky with the girls you choose maybe your desire to have somebody has blinded you to these girls faults maybe if you had more confidence you would attract a differant caliber of girl just something think about

I was picky with this girl. After getting to know her she really seemed like my type. She totally changed overnight. She even came to the store i work at with her new boyfriend yesterday to rub it in my face. I really dont know why she changed like that. It takes a lot for me to let my defenses down now and she totally fooled me. Thanks to everyone who replied to this post. Your support means a lot

That is some mean stuff she pulled lets get out the problem and concentrate on the solution if it was me id start messageing some girls and i might start with the ones that showed me sympathy n my thread we got some really cool ladies here get to know them before you know it you will not be thinking bout that mean old girl