So i have a ? For the ladies tonight.. Why is it that if a man has custody of their kids why is it such a shock to everyone and then why is it hard for a woman to accept a guy like me jus cause i have my kids?? Smh

Hmm idk about being hard to accept u as a man but its a big responsibility rather it be a man with kids or a woman with kids. It involves more lives then just ur own when getting in a relationship, can't be taken lightly.

Tru but i guess everyone cant think and do as i do lol

@Cws8088: Some times its hard some people just want all the attention .. It took my ex to go through 6 women till he found me, I accepted him and his 3boys actually fell in love with his boys straight away when i 1st met them.. Some people just have to accept the whole package if they want a relationship with a single parent..

I know I personally do not want more kids to raise lol Im workin on my grandkids now:) I also had the same problem when I raised mine alone-lots of guys just didnt want a woman w four little kids-and I was hesitant to introduce any man to them anyway because they were very fragile after I left their abusive daddy:( Hang in there-some women want what you want you just have to be patient:) good luck:)