How do we balance our Families that we love with the new person in our lives? Any experiences or bits of wisdom y'all wanna share?

Was hoping to gain that problem... I have two families. One here in south carolina and one in virginia. Two mom's two dads was eight sisters but lost one in a fatal motorcycle wreck on the blue ridge parkway last fall (rip you are gone but not forgotten) and a brother and they all hate each other. I love them all and i have to balance my family so the woman who has captured my heart would be a welcome addition to the mix.

Thats tough one it seems that makeing sure the 2 find some common ground which is probably our job to cultivate

@Elhefe: good answer

@coyotesnuggler: I kinda knoow what you mean...have two families in same town...real dad and step dad hate each other...has been a balancing act for all us kids(ten of us). I am 1 ususally keeping the balance and I have gotten pretty good at it....didn't think abt what an advantage that practice wld be....thanx

Don't worry, we'll disagree sooner or later :-)

@coyotesnuggler: of course we will...u tarzan~I'm Jane...it's inevitable!

@coyotesnuggler: boy i cant wait she b on you like white on rice lmao

@LaDawn1974: lmao i've never been called a jungle boy before! Thanks i needed that. Been a lil down this evening

@Elhefe: hey I aint THAT bad! Just detest disrespect....don't mind non-judgemental disagreements, in fact I welcome them...I never know when I might learn something.