So after 8 years this not so very nice women who just gave birth to 3boys and just up and left,And i came into the picture and raised them as my own and has legal guardianship over these boys, Has now decided she wants her sons back and she is now sorry blah blah blah blah, But she couldnt hug her own boys at their fathers furneral, >:-( .. Cant stand people who just have kids and think its okay to pop in and out of kids lives..

yeah yknow? some women force the father out then lie to thier kids and say he walked out. they demonize the father so they dont look bad and those children wind up hating the man simply because the mother lied to save face.

I know guys that do that. A few think that it all right to just return like it's normal. But think of the poor kids. Oh sure it would be wonderful to have both parents to raise their kids together but it's a thing of the past.

@PaulG7719: The ex and i gave her 2 chances to sort her stuff out, it even took me a plane ticket to the U.K for her to at least bond with her sons, but every time she had them, the boys will come back to their father saying, Mum said your an a-hole,your an evil man etc.. So that didnt work and on the day of my exs furneral she shows up drunk and decides to say, I love my boys etc.. >:-( .. Yep SOME people these days !

yeah exactly! shes not a mother.... shes a selfish child. my boy and girl are all i have and soon ill be a part time daddy thanx to thier mommy. simply because she wanted other men.

It may be slow in coming around at times but I assure you Karma is vicious.

@clover04: thats so true.