hey yall! Iv been having some difficulties with ppl not aknowledging that im femme, which for obvious reasons bothers me, but i dont wanna (metaphorically) take em off at the knees for it. How could i get them to "get it" without being a jerk?? Thank you for any input.

Could you elaborate on what ppl are doing? Is it guys still msgin u? If so,I recommend placing" I am femme! No guys please" as ur headline. State on ur profiile a little more emphatically that NO GUYS NEED APPLY!

@BranBran27: no, its that ppl thatve known me for most/all of my life seem to think of me as a woman. Young or otherwise..

*typo* they Do Not seem to think of me as a woman. Sorry for the confusion

Glad u clarified cuz i was confused this morning but didnt wanna ask an inappropriate ques. it makes sense now lol

@Briteeyes: -blush- yea i was tired while writing that part lol. But its gotten to the point where i almost wanna move outta my family home -even though id rather not-, since they-except my brother- dont seem to respect that im a young woman bc i wasnt born biologically female... Think mebe some distance may be helpful?

Distance may help in the short term but long run you would have to try talking it out with them and will take sometime.