Ok ladies, here's 2 questions for ya...1 are u more likely to message a guy first or do u wait for them to message u? 2. How are u gonna know if a guy is nice n someone u might be interested in if u don't answer when they do message n wont take the time to get to know em? I know there's a lot of crazy people on here who only want nude pics n stuff so I understand y'all have to be careful, but not every guy on here is like that...there's a lot of good guys on here too

1. I personally would do either. Just depends on the people involed. 2. I only will not answer if the first message is about coitus or disrespectful.

Well I never send messages like that, especially the first message

Like me I'm nice you can ask my gf she'll tell you the same thing. But I'm wondering the same thing you are @ChrisMac75 #2 questions

Well my answer: 1. I wait for them to message. 2. I always reply because profile alone is not enough

1. I dont message anyone first. But Im kinda here for friendship that I tend to find in forums. 2. I almost ALWAYS message people back. I have my reason for thos that I havent but I wont share them because it would be taken the wrong way. Lol

@casper I know alot of women are kinda leary of guys cause of all the freaks out there that just wanna nude pic or sext so they kinda screw it up for us guys that aren't that way..but at least give someone a chance before u categorize all us that way

Hey now. I even ignore negative karma to give someone a chance lol

1.) If I see something on their profile or in the forum that I want to comment about, I usually send a message. It is hard for me to keep up with the forums. 2.) It depends on how well the conversation is going. If it isn't keeping my interest, or there isn't a lot to say then we are wasting one another's time.

@RILaR, I know u answer back ;)
@April u can still be friends n message, a lot of the times that's all im looking for, just new friends to talk to :) but I understand what u mean