Ok, for now I just want to make friends on here. It seems every girl so far has stopped txting out the blue, is a creeper and wants to move in after bout a week of talking and wants to have my baby or either they get mad I put my kids and job foremost and don't txt/call them every second of the day.

Maybe I should explain the stop txting out the blue: Basically that happens after I tell them I am still saving up for my divorce. When you have kids you have to handle it delicately. Especially when you're divorcing for the reason I am.

well they should know, since your profile says separated, that youre clearly not divorced. i think alot of women are intimidated by the fact that, in our heads, theres always a chance that we could fall in love with somebody and the divorce never comes; but rather you go back to work things out for the kids. may not be your case, but it happens enough to cause women to fear it happening. maybe just dont have too high of expectations for a relationship or bond until it is final. btw when i got divorced i went through legal aide and it didnt cost me anything. look them up. maybe that will help you with custody and divorce and still speed up the process.

Hi. Divorce is hard enuf for children so good 4 u if trying 2 make it as easy as possible for them. :-)

@ashley8626: There is absolutely NO chance of me working things out with her. I'm divorcing her because she was abusive to the kids. (and I've been up front to them about this).

Heyyyyy scooby this does not apply to me

Lol. No, brites, doesn't apply to you. And I don't think legal aide covers the cost of a lawyer.

@galonely23: no doubt youre clear on your position. just pointing out what women may be thinking. most are insecure when it comes to that. ive been divorced for 5yrs and men still say they think ill go back even when ive told my story as well. i know where youre coming from. and it may also be possible they think theyll get caught up in the middle of it. people are selfish. just be patient. itll happen when its meant to.

btw they provide you an attorney. its not finances they cover, they provide you an attorney and you present your case. they were actually very good and effective. probably better than the attorney i pay for now lol.

I appreciate the info, but think I'll stick with paying for it on my own. I don't like using government funding.