I'm 34m and was in a relationship with a 54w! Sex was good but she alway said she couldnt trust me! She said i will cheat on her bcuz she was older! We lived together for a while and i couldnt take her sayin i was cheatin when i wasnt! I loved her and her kids but she pushed me away! Should i try with her or say **** it and move on?

Only thing I could think why she was acting that way is because deep down she knows that someday you might find someone your age and she is bracing herself for when that day comes. And saying your cheating or whatever she is giving you a way out. Maybe im wrong.

I think you should move on. Sounds like maybe she has some insecurities. But didnt you talk about the problem b4 when u were together? Probably gonna still be an issue. If your heart tells you to go back, And give it another try and she will take you back...then go for it. Go with your instinct. I just think people break up for good reasons. Some people you have to love from a distance..if its not a healthy situation for you. I learned the hard way. Love cannot overcome all issues! Good luck

I believe we all have insecurities of some fashion, some r jus more overwhelming then others. As frustrating as being accused is, and i know that it is, (but sometimes u cant control the way u feel,) if u truely love this woman u should help her through her insecurities instead of leaving her to deal with them on her own. Thats part of being a couple, helping one another, loving one another, supporting one another. Thats jus my opinion. Good luck to ya. True love is unconditional!!!

My oppinion just sayin here maybe she was the one cheating idk but maybe she was and accusing you too push you away and not hurt you by your finding out she was?