I need some point of views here !! I feel as that im going to be single again when things have only just started.. Heres the big problem, He has 4kids and can’t have any more :( I love him but thats 1 thing ive always wanted was my own kids/kid to call my own,watch them grow etc .. Im scared to get to attached to my mans kids or to anyone i date because when my ex partner and i split i was so attached to his kids that it just hurt just as more :( But this has put a huge wedge between us.. Is it time to leave and move on?? or stay??

well if you truly want a child/children of your own than perhaps you should move on and not grow more attached... on the other hand there are methods to having a child, perhaps insemination would b an alternative to calling it quits... if you truly love him...

well,you are either willing to commit or not. Any time you take a chance with somebody you run the risk of getting hurt. You have to ask yourself"is it worth it?" and then act on your answer.Just remember that the time you have spent with your mans kids will have a huge impact on the rest of their lives and if you have a good relationship with them they will remeber you fondly no matter what. Hope that helps.

@NiceGirlBack: Did u know he didnt want to have more kids, b4 u got into the relationship with him? To be honest i dont blame the man, 4 kids prolly paying lots of childsupport, !

Its a never ending story, I deleted my 1st account because he couldnt handle me on here making new friends,Im loyal as they come , Had a massive argument 2 days ago on the day i deleted my account because he wants me all to himself bla bla bla ignored me when i spoke about other ways of having kids but im get’n the feeling im single but in a relationship does that make sense lol ..

I would say to trust your gut instinct on this one...plus, it sounds like he's a tad insecure.

Wellll.... If you are questioning the relationship, that's a sign in itself. Things don't appear to be moving in a natural loving way. I don't know if you two already had an understanding about continuing to participate on the site so I wont go there. However, the relationship seems really pressed and in opposition. He needs you while you want him. If you made a 7th child with him do you think it would release the tension and opposition in the relationship? I think that's more important to consider.

@JustMeAndYou77;
You’r right there.. As for the site i was willing to give my password and everything so he could understand that i wasnt being disloyal to him and besides SOME guys only pm me to be friends the rest well got the dump botton.. but that wasnt good enough either for him, Im now single but do feel a connection there still,I do understand and feel for him that if he was to have another kid it be a long tough road but i yet again was willing to always stand by him and support him but no got shut down for that, Im not a bad person its long story on this it would take 3 threads to write it out.. But im not blaming him either for his ways, Things happen for
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oops carry on, Things happen for a reason.

Oh I see with the site thing. I'm glad you made a decision about the relationship though. Those things can be tough to resolve.