Need sum input.i have 2 boys 1 is 7 the other 8.there mom and i split,and on good terms.she has a new boyfreind but he is beating on her when they get drunk [thank god not while the kids are there and they have not been told],but they are telling me they are scared of him and they want me to tell her,i tried to talk to her when she told me he had been hitting her she acted like i was the jealous ex.honestly i called it and i do want her to b happy.so here is my question how do i say something if anything and not b the or sound like the jealous x thought maybe sum outside input would help

If you have any hard evidence go to the police. Let him be arrested and maybe some time with"bubba" will learn him some manners.

Wish i did.funny he is a c.o.

I say tell her you are worried about the kids. Because since he beats her how long before he hits one or both of the boys? God forbid. Try to get her to see the reasoning in that. Cause while he's drunk he's capable to do anything.

@CasanovaBrown: i no right,and i brought that up when we first talked that was the frist thing i thought

idk how u wud but try and get it on video or get him drunk and try and see if he'll swing on you and if he does kick his ass and have him put in jail

I got 2 family members who both been thru what she is going thru now its a false reality that they always believe they can handle it and be the stone both my relatives never listened to any of family or close friends regardless of childrens sake both believed the guys that beat them loved them its really a sad thing to watch and they still havent learned new guys same bull they she on a dark path down alcohols brainwash as long as the guy is there im afraid she wont leave him best u can do is keep puttin reality in ears whether she listens or not and give ultimatums if ur ok with being a bit of an ******* ur priority as a father are ur kids dont loose sight of that just hope she follows suit