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Long distance vs local (by RedDragon103)

 RedDragon103 
18-Apr-12 3:25 pm
Is it just me or does it seem ALOT easier to connect with somebody who happens to live up to several hours away then to connect with people who are local? Ive talked to a few girls who have lived hours away from me and the distance does get to me, I find it easier to connect with them.

 

 

 
 
 James2112 (1)    (34 / M-F / Texas)
18-Apr-12 4:45 pm
@RedDragon103: if you're talking about finding girls online and over the phone then I believe Ik the answer. Its easier to get to know somebody without seeing them because you are just judging their mind. Not their actions or their looks. And they are doing the same to you. Long distance only works in my opinion tho if you are able to move their and stay for awhile. Dragging it out for months over the phone doesn't seem to work. I've talked to a few couples that made long distance dating work and that's what they've told me.

 

 

 
 
 RedDragon103 
18-Apr-12 5:39 pm
Goodpoint. Only thing Im weary about is when some of them become too attached and get ****** when we cant date because of the distance

 

 

 
 
 James2112 (1)    (34 / M-F / Texas)
18-Apr-12 6:01 pm
@RedDragon103: it takes a lot of patience and as I said its best if you meet within the first few month or so. Otherwise it most likely isn't gonna work in my opinion

 

 

 
 
 iamblack 
19-Apr-12 12:35 am
If you wait for perfect conditions, you'll never get anything done. MOST PEOPLE WOULD LEARN FROM THEIR MISTAKES IF THEY WEREN'T SO BUSY DENYING THEM. SOMETIMES you will never know the true value of A MOMENT until it becomes A MEMORY. Life is short, live it. Love is rare, grab it. Anger is bad, dump it. Fear is awful, face it. Memories are sweet, cherish them. Beauty isn't about having a pretty face, it's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, a pretty soul.

 

 

 
 
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