Ok heres the question i have. I am a disabled vet got hurt in afghanistan and like a lot of vets got kicked to the curb as soon as i got back. Now why is it women will say that they understand that you have problems to work out and say they are willing to stand by you but when it comes down to it they blame you for all the relationship problems etc. I dont understand this and would like some insight please

No clue to be honest maybe they think they can handle it and put on an act but really cant or they dont realize that they might actually have to put work and effort into the relationship

yea thats kinda what i was thinking but at the same time i make sure to let people know what there getting into. Theres no way they couldnt have known they were gonna have to put work into it.

Some women it really dont click until they are physically doin it its weird i know but seriously some are like that

@Estarley77: Agree with you!

yea but in the end it always screws over guys like me. So i just dont understand really why someone would do that or be like that

I really cant explain other ppls actions i know its not right and its not fair im sorry for that and those type of ppl give good ppl a bad rep :(

I ll only advice women to weigh their options well be4 they commit to such relationships to c if they ll b able to cope wit d responsibilities! U cant raise someone's hopes, only to dash it.

@Estarley77: aint that the truth and honestly some women see dollar signs and a steady meal ticket and ride with military men and that is what drives them at first but realize with a disability they actually gotta work a lil bit. Its great that you put it out there in the beginning that you do have a disability and you will meet the right woman and thank you for all that you do and have done for this country so that i can do what i do!

i completly agree. And im going to say if anyone is planning on getting with a combat vet and is curious about what to expect message me and ill tell you. Its different for each person but better for you to go in thinking its gonna be worse then it really is then to go it expecting it to be better then it really is