Does anyone else here feel the same way as me? i have talked to a few girls on here since i joined... And whan we started to excange pics they automatically sent nude pics. Maybe i am wierd but i would much rather recieve a fully clothed pic than a fully nude one. I feel it is just completely unfun and takes all of the excitement out of meeting this new person. Also i feel like maybe when a "girl" sends me nude pics right out of the gate, maybe they are not who they say they are. Especially when i clearly ask for non nude photos. Is there a way for us to verify that each other are who we say we are?

Good question! Probably not unfortunately... unless you convinced them to hold up a particular object in the picture to prove it. c:
As for the nude pics... awwwwkward lol I would never do that xD

Check this out. . . like 4 or 5 day's ago i exchanged number's w a girl bc she seemed really cool. Well as i'm txtin her she tell me she must confess somethin. On her profile it said 19 an no children. Her confession was that she had JUST RECENTLY TURNED 17 an was 8 month's pregnant. The point of the child didn't bother me kid's r wonderful but really?! 17 year old teenager on here. . . Make's me wonder now an a bit fearful 2 talk 2 anyone. Even if someone verifie's their pict how do we know they aren't lieing about the other thing's about them selves?

Goes for some of us girls too dude

@ThatNerdyChick: i just find it to be more of a turn off than a turn on! Holding something op near their face would work, but the last girl i asked to verify for me that she was who she was saying she was got terribly offended and ****** off at me. Does that prove that they are lying about their identity?

I hope u reported the profile.

It bothers me when i start talking to a seemingly nice guy and then they start talking about sending boob pics and nude pics i am not that kind of girl. I rather learn about someone and take the time to get to know them and find out if we would work well together over a longer period of time rather than rush right into a relationship. number one reason for this is my son, not many men feel comfortable dating a girl who is not exactly fit who has a young child. too many people go by how a person looks rather than waiting to find out what that person is like on the inside. though I do admit there are alot of women who do the same thing. In my eyes it is more preferable to learn who a person is by talking to them and seeing what their personality is like rather than go by their looks. if more people did this i bet they would find their soul mate.

@jeremy1987: Hmm... I can see why she would be offended but I think it's like getting someone to sign a pre-nup. If you don't do it, you're probably gonna get screwed. I personally would do it but that doesn't mean someone who wouldn't is a phony. I would say just be nice about asking, try to slip it into context. You could even make it like a thing between you, "I'll do it if you will :P" lol or idk something clever so they won't be on the defensive.

@Rocko6289: i also agree with what you said. I had that happen reciently, but it went more like the girl said she was 18 and then tried getting me to talk to her "11 year old sister who loves sex" I couldnt believe it and i was absolutely discusted! it seems as though this is a reacurring issue.

are you guys reporting this....andres needs to know!