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Why do whomen use kids as tools to hurt fathers? (by expactation)

 expactation 
9-Mar-12 5:32 pm
Thats my exparence with my whole life ladies. And not one has proven me wrong,not even my cousin who i adore

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
9-Mar-12 5:41 pm
Because women like that are stupid. It not onlt hurts the other parent but it hurts the children. Most people dont consider that because they are selfish

 

 

 
 
 Kaotikdad (0)   (43 / M-F / Florida)
9-Mar-12 5:51 pm
I hate this subject cause every women say they would never but always do... Usually its cause after the relations are over she cant do anything to **** u off, make u jelous,or hurt u except that... and they know it. Its a power trip... Its pittiful

 

 

 
 
 JCSMTG 
9-Mar-12 6:05 pm
There are a lot of emotional injuries on this site, hell, the world. At some point we all have to let go of them if we want to find love.

 

 

 
 
 myko80 (0)   (44 / M-F / California)
9-Mar-12 6:14 pm
This is an easy one fellows. By the time we all break up men are usually over the women. But the ladies r a bit different. They would b mad if they seen us 2 yrs later with someone else. They know the only way to hurt us is thru our kids. Sad and pathetic yes, but I have seen it time after time and dealt with it 1st hand

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
9-Mar-12 6:36 pm
Im not like that. My kids dad had half custody of my son he didnt want his daughter. Just after starting to take his daughter. Dropped them both off they only seen him twice in two years and hurt both my kids. I still dont stop him from seeing them. Im not into hurting my children.

 

 

 
 
 expactation 
9-Mar-12 11:54 pm
Brats##### thanks for that. I have watched a lot of **** revolved around kids in the middle. But through every thing ive been through i just cant belive the vindiction of one person in there self contempt, it was a total shocker from far left feild. She went crazy,and i dont mean like agressive i mean totaly insane,belongs in a looney bin crazy.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
10-Mar-12 12:22 am
@expactation sorry to here that. But in todays society alot of people have mental illness. My ex is bi-polar along with his oldest son. Most but not all women leading down fall after having babies is depression. And it is also a mental illness that is curable. Some without the right drugs to stablize them become insane. Yours probably was bi-polar.

 

 

 
 
 Chillbill 
14-Mar-12 9:48 pm
I would just like to say I am the mother of a beautiful 3 year old baby girl, I absolutely cannot stand and that's not because we broke up it's because he's a useless father, he was useless when we were together and he's useless now we're apart, but I don't stop him from seeing my daughter, I can't stand him but I love my daughter, and I know he loves her too, he doesn't pay child support and disappears anytime I ask him for help with any expenses, he used to tell all our mutual friends that I was bleeding him dry (of money) however they soon saw his true colours, Im fed up but have to be strong for my child. I think it shows a great weakness in character when a woman can't put her own real, but insignificant feelings aside, LADIES- no matter how much you hate them they still love there kids. And MEN-not all women are the same, some of us have our childrens best interests at heart, sorry for blabbing on!!

 

 

 
 
 amber08 
22-Mar-12 4:34 pm
I would like to say not all women are like this... The girls are and thats because they are on a power trip and want you to know they can control you even if you leave them its effed up and bs. My situation is different. I work fulltime and have zero help. My sons father has told me numerous times he will only help me with my son if him and are are together. But hes literally crazy. Hes hit me cheats stalks my house my work and has tried to run me off the road. Crazy though is he is a good dad when he wants to be. i dont want my son to grow up being without his dad but i will not be forced to be unhappy and be with him for some support. I dont have anybody that watches my son for me besides my mom and she lives 45 mins away from me so thats a trip i would have to make 4 times a day so sad enough to say i do need his dad. And its not like his dad works.. He doesnt. I have to bring everything for him such as diapers milk etc

 

 

 
 
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