Those are the boneheads u gotta weed out before u get to the goodones.

@anncleofaye: Thank you! :) & good luck to you as well you are such a sweetie u deserve the best, dont settle for less!! @laceybug24- :( i know exactly how that feels that is such an awful feeling... i hope that you are just speaking of an example & are not going through that right now that is such a terrible thing, if u are speaking of urself i want to say that u are a diamond, u are valuable & u will find someone!! Do not give up.

@lexa20: thanks :)

Not all men are abrasive. There lots of men out there who are respectful. If you don't get discouraged, you'll meet a fundamentally decent man. Personally, I think an affair should be based on mutual respect

Such is life ladies. You don't always get what you want especially in matters of the heart. All i can say is be yourself. Friends first and one important thing; DON'T encourage flatterers. They are only IN for one thing.

Hi Lexa :) .. Sorry to hear that you stumbled to pretentious guys but in virtual dating , that's very common . They are going to sweet talk the lady but deep down they have that hidden agenda but of course there are always exception .

The best way you can avoid getting hurt is to guard your emotions and not to immediately believe on what they said .. Take your time to know a certain person :) ..

Part of the problem is that until the premium features go into effect here, this site is totally free, and the subhumans and animals that wander in have absolutly nothing to loose for behaving badly, despite the efforts of admin. And some here that try to keep it civil! Women here should feel comfortabe, but some guys with no respect do their best to ruin that! So you just have to be wary!

Don't talk to guys with 420 or 69 in their screen names and that should weed out at least some of the garbage. Not all men are pigs, it's just that the ones who aren't see that the ones who are get the girls, so we tend to not talk to girls as quickly or as often.

@Thegeorge76: i got 420 in my name it's part of who i am i'm not a bad guy i treat women with respect i'm not here for sex just conversation and who knows mabee i meet a fantastic woman

I thought 420 was about weed?