Why do guys always act super sweet towards me for like the 1st few minutes or even days, then turn into rude ***es who only want me for sex & say all these dirty digusting things to me? I just want a loving caring man who LOVES ME FOR ME not just what I look like or what i could do :'( thats really starting to hurt my feelings, im not a sex toy! I have feelings!

@Lexa20:not all guys r like that

@Lexa20: the majority of men are pigs. Ive been through this alot and thats why i have the friend rule. We gotta be friends before we date or even discuss sex.

Some guys are just immature but heads that only care about themselves keep a positive atitiude and you will find what you are looking for :)

Is not the guy for u if that all what he want most guys just want u for u

Those ain't men hun dnt let them get to you those r the ones that dnt knw a gud wmn when they c 1

@ladycouture: yea ive been experiencing this alot too :) "some" of guys likes u because of ur body, have a sex and sleep with u. well i just simply ignore them :)

Awwww all of you are sweethearts thank you for taking time out of your lives to say something supportive. @ladycouturexx im stealing ur idea!! lol that is so smart!! @hopeful33 u are so kind @gibby i will keep searching. Thank you guys!

@lexa20: yea gibby was right. just keep on searching til u find the man of ur dreams and is right for u. good luck to u sis :)

Iv been getting alot of that.. An yes it does hurt alil.. But what hurts the most is when u think u found someone an he tells you everything you want to hear then pulls out . Lets just be friends after .he sees he is fallin for me an all that sweet stuff now thats a heartbreaker.. An i feel i will never find someone