PLEASE inbox me your opions cause i tend to forget to review these, how do you let your best friend know who you have known since you were kids that her boyfriend is a lying backstabbing cheating punk without hurting her feelings in having to tell her that straight up? Can anyone help me with this please

Tell her straight out

@Maurice28: Dude you dont understand this is a friend i have known all my life she already knows im keeping something from her and if i tell her straight up it wont be a pretty sight no offence im not trying to be rude but with her i respect her as a sister and cant be blunt to her i have to much respect for that

Its gonna hert regardlees,,if u get involved then her boyfriend and his friends will probably start trippin on u...id leave it alone,,,,i think personally u love her,and secretly wanna be with her,so thats why u care so much

^^^ yup yup. It's gonna hurt her no matter how you say it.

@CALIFORNIADREAMIN: Man i love her like family we grew up together i honestly dont see her like that she is a good friend helped me through my moms passing and my kids passing 4 yrs ago im just tryin to figure out how to word this to her cause he had my trust til he lied to her went to the bar i was at and was messin with some other woman i just dont want to hurt her telling her im so ******* lost right now it aint funny

@alysia92: ty alysia i just wish i knew what to do is all was hopin to get advice for this

Be honest but tactful. Present her with the facts and make sure your evidence isnt just heresay. Let her know that u are telling her this as a friend because friends tell each other the truth no matter how much it hurts. She may be in denial at first. She may say things in anger, but whatever u do dont make the situation worse by responding in anger. Just say what u have to say and let her make up her own mind. If she choses to stay with him or ignore it then know u tried and did your duty as her friend and that she is an adult that can make her own decisions.

I'm first post,I didn't mean for the arrows to b under that guys I meant for it to b under the first guys...straight up is the best way.no matter what. If u have the respect for her u say u do and you love her like a sister. U would just tell her straight up. Put yourself in her shoes. I know I wouldn't want someone si dear to me a bestfriend walking on egg shells,or holding something back TRUST its a big part of being a good friend.sit her down and explain everything u saw in full detail.she needs to know,and u can't hold it in or not tell her! And I would explain why u haven't told her til now....

@purecowboy1988: best way i find to approach this dont say anything,when he out doing his thing and you know where he go, get her to take a ride with have her see it for herself,then tell her after she sees it and why you couldnt tell her,you have been freinds since childhood,whether you tell her or she sees it herself there will be hurting 2 come regardless,be there to comfort her as a freind should