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Why? (by alwayswaiting91)

 alwayswaiting91 (0)   (33 / F-M / Illinois)
1-Apr-12 11:59 pm
Everytime im in a long distance relationship it always ends because of they're baby momma/ex wife/ ex fiance. now this one idk yet but im starting to freak out. maybe its cuz im being a lil over emotional. but its been 4 days since ive talked to him.... he broke his phone. ive got 2 quick facebook messages from him. one saying he loved me and couldnt wait to hear my voice and that i made him really happy. but today for some reason my gut is screaming to me that he isnt gonna ever talk to me again. and that he doesnt love me. he has a ex wife/ baby momma. who still loves him. and is screwing him around and not letting him see his son. im all confused and i miss him. and i just wanna be in his arms. im tired of long distance always screwing up relationships... specially when i REALLY love them.
id do anything for him. i hope tomorrow i hear from him. i hope everything is okay. and i hope im freaking out over nothing.

 

 

 
 
 dontworryaboutathing 
2-Apr-12 4:12 am
Have you ever thought of going to see these people. Men tend to move on after a few weeks without physical contact,not all but i know i do. And like me haveing a child and a baby momma i not really appt to travel, really cant afford it. I have my daughter 5days a week and still have to pay support to her dead beat mom. Kinda leaves me broke

 

 

 
 
 alwayswaiting91 (0)   (33 / F-M / Illinois)
4-Apr-12 3:28 am
Im working all the time and my cars acting up. otherwised i wouldm plus when im not working he is. our scheduals kinda over lap. but i think things are okay... i hope

 

 

 
 
 poznetpunk3 (1)  (33 / F-MF / Nebraska)
4-Apr-12 7:22 am
Long distance relationships are rough but keep your head up they can work i was in one for two years and we ended on a pretty good note. Remember if he dosnt work out theres lots of good guys.

 

 

 
 
 alwayswaiting91 (0)   (33 / F-M / Illinois)
5-Apr-12 4:48 am
Oh i know. just tired of starting over... i dont wanna but i guess i will if i have too. things are looking okay now i think

 

 

 
 
 Ram318 
5-Apr-12 4:51 am
Oh my dear, listen to your gut. Its rarely wrong

 

 

 
 
 Msxeni 
5-Apr-12 2:20 pm
@alwayswaiting91: Smh realize wat u posted. Ur barely makin it out of ur teens maybe its time u put ur laptop away & try to meet some friends another way. Jus sayn

 

 

 
 
 alwayswaiting91 (0)   (33 / F-M / Illinois)
5-Apr-12 7:36 pm
@Msxeni: im only 2 years younger than you.
thanks for the advise but ur assumeing too much so u can keep it. k thanks bye

 

 

 
 
 blueeyes1968 (0)   (56 / F-M / Michigan)
5-Apr-12 7:53 pm
You are young and have so much in front of you than you can even begin to realize.....have you concidered meeting someone in your area that doesnt have any children that is your age? Sounds like the long distance thing is not for you. And if your intuition is telling you something is not right then something is not right. The best advice is to listen to your inner voice specially in these situations. Good luck!

 

 

 
 
 Msxeni 
5-Apr-12 11:19 pm
@alwayswaiting91: im not the one in long distance relationships that have failed over & over & keep falln for the bullshyt. Learn from ur mistakes & make wiser choices sounds u definitely need to get out more ,, no hard feelngs hun :)

 

 

 
 
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