Honestly the out of country guys are less perverted-they just want to get married...but the point of this thread was basically if a guy would take the time to read my profile most would not waste their time inboxing me-and just because Im a confident outspoken woman about my sexuality does not mean I want a guy to verbally molest me...lol:)

@SammyToo: As a confident outspoken woman I have recieved many PMs in direct response to my posts (and pics) but they never bother me. It is quite simple to just ignore em...it takes all kinds to make the world go round and I happen to know that a few women that talk about sex in the forums have done so with the sole purpose of inviting those PMs that annoy you Tammy. I believe that man bashing every man that has the nerve to start a conversation with you is pointless. Men will be men and lets face it men are quite confused by us women...I believe some if not most just don't know any other approach...because sometimes that approach works. I get that you were just venting not man bashing Tammy....but I think your thread did start traveling down that road. I am not looking but don't have a single restriction and haven't since day one. WE have all the power....ignore or dump if necessary....they can't talk if we don't listen. It cracks me up how some get so bent outta shape at OTHERS actions....seriously what impact do the idiots have unless we allow it?

@LaDawn: Yeah, I know:) it only got to me this time cuz I had just changed my profile to show that my interests lie elsewhere, and was consecutively inboxed by several that obviously did not read it:( lol-then I made this thread and STILL got it on another thread...guess a more appropriate thread title would have been PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU WASTE BOTH OUR TIME:) I love men-love chattin on forums, flirting, etc. Does not mean I want to hook up w em all. I am tryin to specify what I want, not tryin to be a man basher-cuz I definitely want a man that lives close enough for us to be together, and that is not my kids' age:)

ehhhh I don't know Tammy....I wldn't rule out them sexy young men TOO quickly!

Just wanna say this again..lol