I kinda find it amusing all the posts I see here about ''no one will message me, nobody likes me, no girl/guy here is any good, I can never get a date'', etc...etc... This isnt Magic Land here! Only a part of the real world! If being confident, honest and patient isnt working for ya, them just mabye the problem isnt here or with ''them'', mabye the problem is with YOU! And Im not refering to any one person, just to the group of people that complain about ''why does no one like me here''!

Exactly!!! Men have reasons for ignoring women and women have reasons for ignoring men. But cause a WOMAN hurt u dont mean ALL WOMEN are like that, if they dont reply to u thats their choice, maybe their loss. Theres alot of competition on here, 100,000 users......some people may not get replied to but that dont mean give up.

I figured younger people would whine more. Damn this was created because I was bored. But keep it coming, this is amusing! :)

We're both equally guilty of being shallow. Girls or Guys don't matter. Both sides have the shallow people. Just as both have genuine honest, loving and deep people. Guys, girls... don't matter. Humans can be shallow.

I dont see where anyone whined in responding myself....but thats jus me i guess

Very well said, and Brite also. I get annoyed when I keep seeing guys say stuff like, "You women are shallow and only want men with cars and money" when I know that's not at all the type of woman I am. You can't generalize a group of people because of what one of them did.

I voted equal. I think you have shallow people of both genders.

Very good answer mrb.