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Why do i bother! :-( (by XlincslassX)

 XlincslassX (15)    (51 / F-M / England)
20-Jul-12 11:43 pm
This is the second time i been on this site i thawt i found some1 really nice we was txting n talkin but then out of the blue he said stop txting and leave him alone :-( why do i always end up getting hurt wen all i wanna be is happy n feel wot true love is all about.

 

 

 
 
 James2112 (1)    (34 / M-F / Texas)
20-Jul-12 11:48 pm
Its not the sites fault. All the site gives u is a chance to meet more ppl than u usually would. Its not the sites fault if some of the ppl have been bad. I recently got hurt from a person off this site and one person I liked died that I had found on here. And I've been hurt by ppl on here before. U get depressed if you start thinking about it too much. My advice on here is don't throw your heart to someone until you've met them. Just my opinion

 

 

 
 
 XlincslassX (15)    (51 / F-M / England)
20-Jul-12 11:54 pm
Thanks but im not blaming this site or any1 at all its my fault jst fed up gettin hurt lke alot of other ppl hav including ya self. Jst wanna b happy.

 

 

 
 
 angelprincess2 
20-Jul-12 11:56 pm
I just want so one to love me 4 me is it to hard to as

 

 

 
 
 XlincslassX (15)    (51 / F-M / England)
21-Jul-12 12:00 am
@Angelprincess2: yeah its vry hard but even harder at my age, ur still young but ur find some1 :-)

 

 

 
 
 James2112 (1)    (34 / M-F / Texas)
21-Jul-12 12:00 am
The hard part is finding the person that's right. From my experience you'll get hurt less the slower u take a relationship but that's just my philosophy

 

 

 
 
 XlincslassX (15)    (51 / F-M / England)
21-Jul-12 12:05 am
Was taking it slowly had been talkin n txting for months n decided 2 meet wud hav been next week. I dont rush in 2 anything i hav been single for nearly 4yrs so dont fink thats rushing.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
21-Jul-12 12:09 am
@Angelprincess2: yeah its vry hard but even harder at my age, ur still young but ur find some1 :-)
its never easy at any age. And you too will find someone. Just be patient. Take your time getting to know someone. Its hard when people have time and effort in someone you felt were worth it and then they turn around and become jerks.

 

 

 
 
 James2112 (1)    (34 / M-F / Texas)
21-Jul-12 12:12 am
@XlincslassX: ik you may not want to take advice from a youngin like me but when it comes to getting to know someone over the phone you can't give them your heart like that. U have to remember what you get through the phone isn't the whole person so you don't really know the person yet. Don't give them your heart till you've met them a few times. Will save u a lot of heart ache. Trust me i've learned that from experience

 

 

 
 
 XlincslassX (15)    (51 / F-M / England)
21-Jul-12 12:23 am
@James2112: i know wot ya sayin but he never had my heart im not that stupid jst had enuff of being treated lke a door mat jst cus i hav a good heart.

 

 

 
 
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