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Is it Really LOVE (by bbmelody)

 bbmelody (5)    (49 / F-M / Nigeria)
4-Jun-14 7:03 am
I Lov his smiles, his eyes, his charm, d way he makes me feel...I'm INLOVE...he loves d way I'm open minded, my eyes, I make him laugh lots....HE is INLOVE... So it means dat LoV is Conditional??? If he stops smiling, gets too busy , I don't get to see him often.....LOV is strained... I mistakenly bump into another guy, our eyes meet...I lov his smile and we talk and he makes me feel gud, we lov same movies and food and laugh lots....Another Lov begins!!!.... Strange...

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
4-Jun-14 10:00 am
@bbmelody: is this a song?

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
4-Jun-14 2:13 pm
Yes romantic love is conditional.

 

 

 
 
 Notlikeothers 
4-Jun-14 2:47 pm
I think love should be unconditional, like 1corinthians13v4-8
Maybe that's just me

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
4-Jun-14 2:50 pm
@Notlikeothers: It should be, but we're human, we fail each other and our love won't ever be perfect like God's. It's something to strive for, though.

 

 



Last edited by sweetnspice; 4-Jun-14 2:51 pm.
 
 
 Notlikeothers 
4-Jun-14 2:55 pm
@sweetnspice but as humans shouldn't we have compassion for others and know that occasionally we fall short of expectations and standards.
Sometimes people make mistakes based of misinformation which is ultimately us failing to understand the situation in hand. We all do this, we all do and say things we regret later so surely because of our own mistakes we should understand other people's mistakes?

 

 

 
 
 iloveubabe123 
4-Jun-14 2:57 pm
I think love should be unconditional, like 1corinthians13v4-8
Maybe that's just me
i agreed with that :-)

 

 

 
 
 bbmelody (5)    (49 / F-M / Nigeria)
4-Jun-14 3:07 pm
True love i believe does not exsist coś the love we have here is sooo conditional. And Think about it.....Its soo true.

 

 

 
 
 Notlikeothers 
4-Jun-14 3:10 pm
@bbmelody perhaps "love" is conditional because we as society, as humans put conditions on it, why do we love our children unconditionally but love our partner conditionally?, maybe it's because we put conditions of things and place standards from things and people.

 

 

 
 
 bbmelody (5)    (49 / F-M / Nigeria)
4-Jun-14 3:11 pm
@pinket: no dear Its reality..my take on LOVE

 

 

 
 
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