I am over weight even more so after having two kids and i walk every day. But im happy with myself. I dont listen to negitive crap. Im comfortable being me and im well respected and treasured because im miss sunshine. Not one day do i not have a smile a greet everyone with open arms and friendship. That with are aging comes maturity. Those that look down there noses at other people are not better than the ones they look down on. They are immature brats that need to realize life doesnt just hand you something you have to work for it to appreciate it including love.

@brats52005: Ha well thank you lol

its true and your welcome.

Very well said sissy :)

@TChedar: yes thats very true and most of the time the fattest ppl are the sweetest ppl and big women are really good women i should know im a big woman and the way i see it if you cant get past my size to get to know me than your not worth my time :)

Thank you for agreeing with me. :-) I think some people say and pretend that looks don't matter to them only to feel better about themselves. I don't care if people like the way I look. But, I hate for them to BS with it.

@Rainbowbutterfly: Thumbs up Rainbow.... What is beauty, but a mask the world expects us to wear when truth be told the Soul is where it lays hidden most times. Let your beauty shine from inSide, and the mask will surely follow suit. Beautiful on the inside. LOL

Well said.

@Estarley77: u tell em

Beauty fades with time as the Bible says no matter how well it is taken care of. At long last it will eventually fade. But character if groomed will only get better and better as time passes. So I think character is better than looks even though the later serves as an igniter and a catalyst at first. Character at last is what keeps a relationship going.