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Pregnant and Dating (by lilmama87)

 lilmama87 (12)    (36 / F-M / West Virginia)
15-Feb-14 3:34 pm
Heres my situation.... Right now im 7 months pregnant with a lil boy and the father left us.... Hes not coming back either.. So would it be wrong of me to start dating again even tho im pregnant with his child???

 

 

 
 
 blaze2bind 
15-Feb-14 3:39 pm
Not at all, he is the looser that left. So go out and find somebody better. You deserve it;)

 

 

 
 
 RealM4realW 
15-Feb-14 3:40 pm
@lilmama87: the only way you'll do wrong is if you don't make sure the guy you end up dating is a good man. Make sure he's good for you and your kids. unfortunately that's earier said then done.

 

 

 
 
 lilmama87 (12)    (36 / F-M / West Virginia)
15-Feb-14 3:44 pm
Thanks guys i didnt think it would be wrong but he says i would be a worthless p.o.s mom and a ***** because im still pregnant... Im just tired of being a single mom and doing it on my own

 

 

 
 
 RealM4realW 
15-Feb-14 3:45 pm
@RealM4realW: BTW, I used to work out on National road in Triadelphia, out past Bleifus Tires, it's a small world. Good luck and be careful, make sure ur kids come first.

 

 

 
 
 blaze2bind 
15-Feb-14 3:48 pm
@lilmama87: don't listen to him baby your being a better mom by doing what you need to do make sure you and your child have everything you need and want;)

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly 
15-Feb-14 3:53 pm
Maybe, at 7 mos pregnant, its better to focus on your pregnancy, rather than deal with the stress of a new relationship. Good luck anyway.

 

 

 
 
 sweeterthejuice 
15-Feb-14 3:57 pm
I say, there's nothing wrong with it, he just doesn't want to see you with someone else. But, don't do it because you're looking for a new baby daddy or to make him jealous.

 

 



Last edited by sweeterthejuice; 15-Feb-14 3:57 pm.
 
 
 im1made4u (22)    (55 / F-M / California)
16-Feb-14 7:47 am
Thanks guys i didnt think it would be wrong but he says i would be a worthless p.o.s mom and a ***** because im still pregnant... Im just tired of being a single mom and doing it on my own
Sounds like abusive & controlling statements. Jmo take care of yourself & ur babies. Don't listen to him.If he cared bout baby wouldn't say upsetting/mean things like that!

 

 

 
 
 SammyToo 
16-Feb-14 3:32 pm
If youre that far along why would you not want to focus on baby and not findin a new guy already? I think your hormones are out of whack anyway, so meeting a guy now would only put more stress on you...also if I were a guy and my ex was carryin my child, it would enrage me to no end if she were to get physical w another guy w my baby inside her..If thats not your intention, then why not wait a couple more months?

 

 

 
 
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