Where do you draw the line of being gentle and being weak? It seems like the only guys who have the best chances are the superly macho strong dudes. but then I thought girls like gentleness too. Agh! Why is everything so complex?

You are making it that way

@Gracie75: How am I making it that way? Lol O:)

You are trying to make it complicated when it doesn't have to be, its to late for this im heading to bed

Look man you can't be p.ussy but you can't a wife beating womanizer either. Just be yourself unless either a p.ussy or wife beating womanizer than u gotta change that.

I'm not trying to make it complicated I'm just trying to figure it out.

@B3dR00m3y3z: I've been through way too much unpleasantries to be a wuss. I can't even think about hitting anyone unless if it is in a video game

Sounds like your trying to please too many people instead of just being your self.

@rolltide42: I hear what you're saying however part of being myself is wanting to please people. It's so conflicting. Lol xD

@ZeeNiceGentleLadiesMan: just be you and you'll do fine