Why do most guys dont want to be with a female that already has a child

Why do most guys dont want to be with a female that already has a child

Its never been an issue for me but that being said it most likely a issue of taking responsibility of raising another mans child or not wanting to deal with the childs father being around in other words maturity issues

Maybe its because some guys want to start anew n dey want someone hu has been untouched.its just a guess.

My ex had a son before we met didnt bother me I loved him like he was my own. Still do even though me and my wife split up. I have him on my facebook and talk to him a couple times a month. He is 28 now. He was 17 when my wife and I split.

Its not a problem for me. Ive dated plenty of women that have had kids. Personaly i love kids. So they dont bother me.

Hmmm.... Is tha how u feel? Its not always so. Everyone and his perception. It depends on the individual. I personally dnt mind, as long as u love me and remain truthful to me, i will also love u always. Thats mine.

There are a few threads like this one OP. You mite b able to get plenty of info from them. To answer i think alot of it has to do with control of the home. And as a ex step dad i can say its not easx and its not 4 everybody. It takes a strong man to do that and sadly thats hard to find.

You should also read the rules of the forums. And people generally really dont want to answer something fifty times before someone gets the answer they want. But my answer is up to the indiviual you are looking at. Just remember everyone is intitled to there opinion and individualality. Some are not mature and some are. Its you choice to pick through to help you not hinder you to parenthood. Good luck.

@brats if you was gonna be a rude person about my question than you really shouldnt have responded to any of it. And the whole time you were being a smart ass and i dont apprciated it so go be a smart ass on your own ****